Our Trip to Washington DC


Friday, September 11, 2009

Arlington Cemetery

Donnie and I have been wanting to take the boys to Washington DC and thought there was no better time to go than this weekend. Today was a 9/11 we will never forget... not only did we pray for those who lost their lives that day, we also recognized those who gave their lives while bringing justice.

Donnie's entire platoon came to DC this weekend for Ryan McGhee's Jersey Retirement Ceremony & Dedication at his high school in Fredericksburg, Virginia. Ryan was buried in Arlington, so we all went to visit his grave this morning. Ryan was a dear friend and will never be forgotten.

Ryan was one of Donnie & Kirk Foster's men... they were there with Ryan the night he died, it was the same night they both were pretty badly injured. Donnie took Ryan's death very hard, it was really painful to see him cry that day.

Saying a family prayer for Ryan and his family.

JFK & Jacqueline Kennedy's graves and the Eternal Flame.

While we were there, we walked around to all of the famous graves, including the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. Throughout the cemetery, there are signs posted to remind us to be reverent and respectful. Donnie and I were SO proud of how well our boys behaved the three hours we spent walking around.

Here is Donnie with several of his friends, standing next to the plaque they dedicated to Ryan's high school's football field.

This evening was Ryan McGhee's Jersey Retirement Ceremony & Dedication at his high school. It was an AMAZING ceremony that had everyone in tears. A plaque was dedicated in his honor by Donnie's unit. It was so amazing to see everyone wearing Ryan's jersey number 33... whether it was on the ribbons in their hair, their hats & t-shirts, or painted on their cheeks & chests. It took my breath away when the crowd gave Donnie's unit a standing ovation when the football coach asked to give thanks. It was TRULY a night I'll never forget.

It was a bit chilly that night, we all bundled up. There was a section roped off just for us at the front center of the bleachers, which was so thoughtful of Ryan's coaches. The boys had SO much fun at the game... stomping their feet and clapping their hands to the music played over the speakers. Kaleb's favorite was 'We Will Rock You,' he sung it afterwards in the car the whole way back to the hotel.

Massoponax High School won the game... which was a PERFECT way to honor Ryan. The team they played against was very good, but every play just seemed to come together for MHS. After the game, several of Ryan's old teammates said he was definitely there that night... they could feel him.

We were so glad our good friends Kirk & Leah were there with us that weekend. It was quite an emotional one... but so necessary. We love you two!!!



Saturday, September 12, 2009



Today we spent the day with a dear family friend, JJ Smith, who has been at Walter Reed since June 1st. His humvee was hit with an IED in Afghanistan... we are definitely counting our blessings he is miraculously physically recovering well. His legs are in really bad shape, but he was able to walk around with us... with a few rests. The news of him being hurt came to me just a few days after returning home from Ryan's memorial and funeral. It had a been an emotional week to say the least. Donnie and I feel this weekend, visiting both of them, helped our spirits a great deal.

The first place we went was down Pennsylvania Avenue to see the White House. When we got there, a bit of commotion was going on... it was a miracle we were able to get a photo, much less one that turned out well. The Tea Party protesters were there handing out information flyers and picketing everywhere. We actually saw President Obama's Marine One fly overhead. It is one HUGE helicopter!

The Washington Monument

While we were walking around, someone gave Kaleb a little American flag and he carried it for the rest of the day.

I LOVE my soldier!!! =)

If you look to the far left, between the trees, you'll see the Capitol Building.


The World War II Memorial

This memorial was just amazing! If you've never been there, it's set up as a giant circle with monuments representing each state. The monuments were engraved with quotes that we really enjoyed walking around and reading. In the center, was a beautiful fountain. If you looked to one side you could see the Washington Monument, if you looked to the other you could see The Reflecting Pool and the Lincoln Memorial. This quote was my favorite and was very well suited for our weekend.

Here is another cool quote, referring to the roles the women played in supporting our nation during WWII.

This photo is just AMAZING! If you read the quote on the wall, then see Kaleb holding up and looking at his little flag... and then see Donnie sitting to the other side of Kaleb, who's in a unit of our nation's TOP soldiers. So cool, I SWEAR I didn't set them up this way! =)

Donnie & I thought it would be fun for us to get photos in front of the monuments for the states we were born in.




Standing in front of the fountain in the middle of the WWII Memorial with the Washington Monument in the back.

Our boys LOVE JJ! =)

The Lincoln Memorial

We had SUCH a great time with JJ!! He took us all out to a really nice restaurant afterward, where I ate the BEST grilled salmon I've ever had... the food was SO yummy. It was really hard to say goodbye to him, but he promised to come visit us soon... we love you, JJ!!!!!! xoxo


Callaway Gardens Beach


Saturday, September 5, 2009

Today was a fun day at Callaway Gardens Beach... one of our favorite spots. We went for the Hot Air Balloon Festival with our friends the Calls. Shelly & I were so excited to go up in one of the balloons. But we didn't get there early enough for the rides, and we left an hour before the balloon show. So we didn't see a single balloon. We still had a great time though!


Kaden, always being silly!

Sky has grown SO much this summer!!


Shelly & Jason Call

The weather was perfect outside, warm with a nice breeze. We went out on the inflatable rock walls & trampolines and played in the water at the beach. Kaden, Kaleb, Braydon & Ambria had fun digging in the sand. We brought a picnic lunch and camped out for the day... so much fun!!!

Welcome Home, Baby!!!


Monday, August 24, 2009

Donnie returned home from his 8th deployment today!!!! The date changed a few times again, so I decided not to tell the boys again and bring him home to surprise them. The little two were jumping up and down squealing... but Sky has been able to make the connection, no fooling him anymore. He has learned Mom + new sundress = DAD'S COMING HOME!!!! =)


Donnie's sister, Ursula, came down from Atlanta to welcome him home... he was SOOOO surprised!! I didn't get any photos, we had such a great time welcoming him home... these came from Ursula.

WELCOME HOME, BABY!!!!!!!


Rock Sliding At Flat Rock Park


Saturday, August 1, 2009

Flat Rock Park is another one of our favorite spots to go play. Sky's best friend, Shayn, came with us... it was his first time there and he had a ton of fun. It had been raining so the water was pretty high and it was SO beautiful outside today!

This photo looks posed, but I just caught Sky in deep thought... either that or caught him looking at all the cute teenage girls who were there too. Haha!

Kaleb found a few shells.

The water felt so good, it was nice and cool.


Kaleb being daring... as usual!

That evening, after we got back home, we had a cookout with several of our friends. It was a long, fun, busy day!!!


Birthdays, Birthdays, Birthdays!!!


June & July 2009

When Donnie is away for a special holiday, we always do our big celebration either before or after he goes... he really hates missing them. Even though Donnie was away, I was sure we did a little some thing special for each boy on their day.

June 25th
HAPPY 5TH BIRTHDAY, KALEB!!!

Today we went to our friend's the Traynor's and had a barbeque. They have a pool so the kids staying and swam until it was time to come out and eat... so they were a bit shriveled & pruny! Kaleb has gotten really good swimming this summer and loved the new fancy goggles Pam gave him! We had a really fun night!!

June 26th
HAPPY 8TH BIRTHDAY, KADEN!!!

Today we went to Callaway Gardens Beach and played on the inflatables with our great friends, the Calls. Afterward, we came home and had dinner... then had more friends over for cake. Kaden liked Kaleb's dirt cake SO much... he asked for one too! =)

July 30th
HAPPY 15TH BIRTHDAY, SKY!!!

Sky decided he wanted a quiet day with just me & his brothers (which really surprised me, because his best friend Shayn had been living at our house all summer)... so we went to see a movie together and had dinner at home. I love that even as he gets older, he still loves to spend time with his family as much as he does with his best friends.


HAPPY BIRTHDAY, BOYS... DAD & I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!




CHICAGO!!


Late June - Early July 2009

Since Donnie was overseas for the ENTIRE summer... the boys and I decided to have a three week visit up in the Chicago suburbs at my parents', which is ALWAYS a good time!

July 2nd - Today was my mom's 60th birthday... the boys & I were SO happy to be able to spend it with her and the rest of the family. My older brother, Rob, and his soon-to-be-fiancee, Amy, flew out from Vegas, and my youngest brother, Mark, came up from school at University of Illinois. It was the first time we've all been together since Christmas two years ago.

Kaden & Kaleb LOVED that they were able to help Grandmom blow out her candles.

My younger brother, Greg

Earlier that day, we all went canoeing at a local forest preserve. We rented three canoes with three people in each... it was SO fun!!

Greg's girlfriend, Alexsondra, came too. It was my first time meeting her and we hit it off SO well!! Her and I took Kaden with us in our canoe. She is in front, and I had the back... we made a great team! =)

My baby brother, Mark
He's graduating this December with his Master's in Engineering... SO proud of him!!

It was SO funny watching Greg, Mark and Sky! You would think they would be doing circles around us... but that was DEFINITELY not the case! Alexsondra & I just about died laughing as we sped past, listening to Greg & Mark argue about rowing techniques. Classic!

My mom & dad took Kaleb out, so they had the slow and easy canoe. They went off in an opposite direction and we didn't see them until it was time to bring the canoes back in. Kaleb wanted to get out of the canoe and explore so they pulled to shore a few times. He had SUCH a GREAT time with Grandmom & Papa!!!

It doesn't look like it in this photo... but Sky was SO glad he got to go in Uncle Greg & Uncle Mark's canoe so he could hang out with the big guys.

Alexsondra & Kaden, doing their thing!! =)

Rob & Amy stayed back at my parents' house and took a nap while we went... they were tired from their late flight.

After we got back, we all had a barbeque. It was so good to see Amy again... I haven't seen her since I was in Vegas last April and wished her & Rob could've been able to stay longer than just three days. But Rob needed to get back to work, the courtroom was calling. =(

July 4th - The Fourth of July is one of the boys' favorite holidays... they LOVE fireworks and watermelon!!

Here they are having a watermelon eating contest. They had at least FOUR of them while we were there. =)

We had another barbeque and several friends came over to join us. It was great to see some old friends I grew up with I haven't seen in a while!! My brother, Greg, and his friends brought some fireworks to my parent's house... there is a park and huge field behind our house where they set them off. Once it got dark, we walked down to watch the city fireworks.

When we got back from watching the fireworks, Kaleb was amazed at all the fireflies. We don't have them in the south... so I was able to relive some of my childhood and ran around helping him catch some. I remember Greg & I had a glass jar with holes in its lid. We would catch SO many of them... and let them all go when it was time to go inside to get ready for bed. =)

Kaleb SQUEALED when he finally caught one on his own.

July 11th - My mom & I took the boys to Farmer For A Day. They had a BLAST milking cows, lifting bales of hay, feeding pigs and watching two ladies make butter. Before we left we bought some old-fashioned lemon drops and homemade soy candles... SO fun!!

July 15th - Today my mom & I took the three boys to the waterpark at their Recreation Center. It's a really nice park with three really high slides, a lazy river, a high dive, a tidal and a regular pool. This waterpark is right next door to the spray park... which has giant whales, towers and flowers that spray water as the kids run through. There is also a big sand area with little water mills and water tables to play with. We had a great time visiting both parks a few times while we were there.

July 17th - Today Greg, Alexsondra, Mark, Mark's friend Robert and I spent the day and evening downtown Chicago.

The weather was gorgeous... we really enjoyed walking around and talking. We had dinner on Navy Pier and went to Ex Calibur for a Supernatural show.The show was really interesting, telling us about unusual events that happened in Chicago history with a spooky twist. Alexsondra was REALLY spooked when Greg ended up with the 'cursed coin' during one of the tricks. Good thing she had me, the skeptic, to talk her out of worrying over my brother's demise. Haha!!

Afterwards, we went up to the club and danced our little hearts out. We met our old friend, Ashley, there... it was SO good to see her!!

During our visit, Alexsondra and I went to the Country Thunder concert and had a great time seeing Kellie Pickler, Taylor Swift and several others. I got to know Alexsondra really well while we were there visiting. She quickly became a dear friend and I have my fingers crossed that Greg will make her my sister-in-law in the future!! =)

It was a GREAT day in the city... I can't wait to do it again!!!

The boys and I had such a good time in Chicago... it was REALLY hard to come home this time!! While we were there, I was also able to reconnect with several childhood and high school friends... I can't wait to see them all again! It's a bit sad when I think about Mark moving to southern California after he graduates. We are SO torn deciding whether we will move out west or stay in the south when Donnie retires from the Army... thank goodness we have PLENTY of time to decide. What we would give to have both sides of our family living nearby!! At least we'll always have nice places to visit no matter where we settle!




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